children and democracy

children and democracy

Does this mean the child hot issues and sometimes bloody? We can almost pity on our children as they watched the news bulletin has Tkhaddpt white screen red Aleghana ....!

These questions must be seen in mind they do not completely rejects education on the general principles of Islam, but ask how ... They how to raise these issues.


Holy Father: What do you think if we reviewed together some of the proposals that aim from behind to upgrading our children and good upbringing and instilling democratic values ​​they have:


1 - Knowledge:

Be sure to learn the proper method of education and the nature of each stage passes by your son to know how to deal with you when you want to start a new business ask and read about nearer you to learn something about what you should do with your son.
2 - Friendship:

That your son does not endorse limited role in the dumping orders but must be him feel that you are his sincere friend Vmsadegh son Takia of bad friends.
3 - Presence:

I make sure to be in the house as much time as possible and not go out unless it is necessary and this is what educators recommend you do not already have other business to do your part towards your children understand first you do not wait for someone else care to raise you to your children.
4 - Planning:

Make sure that you plan and schedule in the upbringing of your children and to know how to raise children these books (the art of raising children and a series of our children and raising children in Islam and Rashad in parenting educational tasks for parents, etc.).
5 - Follow-up:

Be sure to follow your son so that you know the problems and solve them.


The question is how to raise our children on the important principles of democracy?



Despite the recent "term" relatively only that Islam has placed controls and principles from the outset Since the crack Apostle calling a practiced policy has manifested itself most fascinating images which establishes the state of Islam in Medina ...

And put her principles that prove its corners and promotion are:


1 - freedom.




2 - Shura.




3 - Cooperation.




4 - interdependence.



It is the same principles advocated by contemporary democracies, but Islam is of Westlake democracies in the approval and work out before the thousand and four hundred years.

These four pillars are needed by the needs of children in all stages of his life until jasper ring and be a useful member of his family and his community and his nation ... These props, despite the magnitude of their meanings .... But we can explain them to the child simply and easily as follows:
First: Freedom
Ask your son is there is nothing more precious than freedom? Wait for the answer ... Then the provisions of his story of the bird who refused food and is in a cage of gold ... And tell him why he did not eat the bird? !
Open the front of the newspaper ... Will watch the soldiers are being killed, tortured and occupy ... And ask him accept to come to them and occupy our homes ...What do we do then? Let him answer.
Red Baklmk science news and then leave the newspaper to his curiosity will read and Anaakeck.
Knowing that freedom is always accompanied by responsibility and ends when the freedom of others begins does not mean your freedom to be at the expense of someone else you are free unless harm others.
Trained to follow the conditions of Muslims oppressed everywhere and told him about heroism and sacrifice for freedom that Aahqunha and brought up by their religion.
Told him that most cherished of lost liberty Al Aqsa is calling us to Nhrrh Israelis occupiers ...


There freedoms imposed sponsored by proper care and those freedoms:


A - freedom of ownership:


It so that it has its own peculiarities that one should not exceed son and understand that the enemies of Islam in their plans spit venom in breaking this privacy and desecration under the so-called "globalization" Yes ... Let him hear this word and told him equivalent in Islam a "global" and say to him: that the West wants to demolish our privacy, whether in clothing or food or the quality of construction ...We are a nation and civilization has a distinctive character ...



Launched his dear father to understanding the meaning of another of the freedom of ownership does not make his hand extends to what is not not touring gaze to things that may not be considered ... And say to him: Do not open the drawer brother ... Do not use his things without his permission ... Keep on the specifics of your friends ... And so on.
- Freedom of expression and freedom of opinion:


Upbringing must express an opinion without fear with teaching how to express his views correctly as not to injure others. And how fluent listen as fluent speech.



Teach him how to respond in polite terms ... If I saw him build up his brother in the speech he mentioned the Almighty, saying: "The good guided to say," always said that word: (hear from discussing heart and you will change your heart towards him). Always said that lowers his voice ... The lowers voice Mveall and if I heard him say (I would love to hear Alcast or television loudly) tell him: thus the freedom ... Tell him that jurists (God bless them) have been denied raises his voice Koran so as not to disturb the chapel ... So touched him the doors of freedom quietly gracious even be free running in his veins the blood of Liberal nobles.
Second: SC


Educator Fadil can instill this sense in the hearts of his children ... That tells the stories that supported and takes from the biography of the Prophet positions confirmed Perhaps the most fascinating embodies this trait is the position of the Prophet peace be upon him on Khudaibiya will be proficient if Gatha for your son Npratk influential and begins to detail the story (the Prophet peace be upon him and his companions in their way to Mecca for Umrah On the way ... asked Quraish Magistrate ordered the Prophet his companions out of Ahramanm and return but nearly disobey his command, what did the Prophet (and here focused on Shura) income on his wife or believers (Umm Salamah) and consulted she pointed him to start his own degradation of ihraam (throat and wear regular clothes instead of ritual clothing) and while doing this was followed by people without hesitation.




And tell them the position of the Apostle, peace be upon him when he took the advice of our Lord Hubab Badr Army and consulted Muslims when confronting parties, referring Salman the Persian dug a trench Wiczl Prophet peace be upon him on his ... Thus highlights the value of the Shura in the same son and Strqpk eye after that to see Are you a role model in it or not ...?!



Therefore you need the following:
Shura depth with your wife first and discuss things objectively in front of the children .... Is not unique to the opinion without them ... Or appear in front of the wishes of the children look tyrannical ... Be patient and even-minded views and discussed the wheat from the chaff and smite to them examples Osag them the experiences so convinced.
Training boy Shura and Taouidh to participate in decision-making and encouraged him and tried to soften extend Sultatk and influence on even comes obedient students your counsel.
Involve your child in the discussion of family matters that concern everyone and taught him the ethics of dialogue .... To listen more than speak ... Do not interrupt anyone ... And understand first and then speak Valahmq speak first and then think and rational thinking first and then speak.
Promises your son how to choose between alternatives, particularly in those things that he loves and Ieischha whether clothes or toys ... Not impose your opinion, but discussed calmly and objectively and explained his reasons and justifications and showed respect and appreciation for him and his opinion and in this way your child will feel satisfied and thaw أساريره and physical integrity, and will not feel Itasb to his opinion but would comply with what you want to smoothly and Lynn.
Third: Cooperation

Cooperation recipe benign instilled love in the family and strengthen the bonds of community members Vtthmr goodness he says: "virtue, righteousness and piety and do not help one another in sin and transgression" [Table 2] must be a look you jam wise to the vicinity of the boy and exploration relations that it must cooperate where He noted that there was isolation or convergence or shame or effect, try to address. . Take the school - for example - has to be paid son to participate in the activities of various groups through school activities and diverse, and knew that the hand of God with the congregation and chagrin is better than the purity of the individual. . This cooperation grows seed produces the fruit of love for others. . And there are many areas little notes - school - like the club and its behavior with its neighbors and relatives.

And can urge him to participate in the activities that need to cooperate.

Such as:
Share it with the neighborhood kids in the street cleaning, for example, or planting some trees.
Share it with his father and his brothers to clean house in order and prepare food.
Share it with his father in the home purchase supplies.
Share it with his friends in the care of the needy and distribute alms to them.
Cooperation in adorn the street on special occasions such as Ramadan and Eid. .And there are many, many innovative means required.
Fourth: Takaful

One of the morals and qualities of believers which must Ngrsha even Jasper sons by Venntaki them from libraries coolest stories that contribute to instill this trait and نحدثهم for City community and how it was solidarity between immigrants and supporters and say: It was not for immigrants money, no housing was Ansari says his : you half my house and you half Mali Vomthal this story makes a loving son arises generous help others not disdain them and raise him to accept help from anyone else, or preoccupied with itself alone, but interested in the affairs of others and happy Balbzl and tender them.