children's fears and disturbing dreams

children's fears and disturbing dreams

We are all afraid. There are those who fear what is useful. Indeed, fear is a killer.

Do you, for example, you know your children how to protect themselves by fear of dangers, such as fear of speeding cars and fire bottles unknown liquids and disease, infection, and men strangers who offer candy to children or money. All these lessons guard reasonable that we teach our children.

But on the other hand may pass on to our children fears unreasonable fear of pets or of certain insects, or fear of the dark, or of new places, or the fear of death, or disabled, or claustrophobia or high places, or fear of monopoly and other types countless times these fears.

We convey these concerns to our children sometimes infected. And pass them intending to other times and pass them is heading for the third hand.

Not surprisingly, if we say that the child has a strong willingness to capture the fears of their parents if the mother was afraid of cockroaches or of the dark, for example, it would be difficult for them to advise her son (or daughter) that there is no reason to fear this stuff.

We also can not imagine the jump from place trembling when you hear thunder, for example, then do not convey such fear to son (or daughter) who is sitting next to them, and perhaps even grabbed protection is a student? ! And dismissed the source of fear learning this stage children grow their imagination to a degree will help them create their own fears.Visouron things do not exist Kalavarret or anticipating accidents or so also helps child's imagination at this stage to put himself where others think that the risk that they have suffered injury or could fall ill, is the same.

The child's imagination can portray him anything at this stage. But not weaves are concerns out of the blue, just about the child from exciting or painful events, both of which are invisible or what is heard or what scenes, is the raw material that child's imagination weaves fears. The most important thing in this article about the family atmosphere.

The atmosphere charged family Balmchagrat and threats of divorce and separation .. And sometimes verbal abuse or hands, what is the hardest ...

And repeated insults to the child of the father and mother .. Then let the mother or father of the house, all of this could destabilize the security of the child and filled with fears and anxiety. That was probably represents an extreme case of the conditions that feed the child's imagination concerns. There is no doubt that there is in most cases less severe conditions.

Fastmaa your child to discuss the death, for example, may make it immediately draws you a question: Do you die I also received: It thus reflects his fear of death based on what he heard. And we'll show you later how the child to answer this question, including removes fears.

And listen to scary stories or watching violent debate whether nature or by the media, is also considered factors that feed the child's imagination unrealistic fears.

The difficulties that the child has been exposed during the previous stages in some respects weaning Kalarzaah and training to control output can make a child more susceptible to fear than other children.

And there is no chance of a feeling of independence and efficiency of the previous experiences of children makes them more vulnerable to fears of others.

Threat on the part of parents and intimidation directly displays the child without a doubt a lot of fears.
Fear of animals

Natural that the child afraid of some animals in this period of age, even children who did not go through any painful experiences.

Do not try to attract the child in terms of the dog, for example, if the fear, it will increase the fears and will not help him. But leave it, and over the months you will notice that your child is trying himself to approach the dog without fear, especially if you took the dog between your hands and your child showed that it does not matter, you repeated it several times with the approach of the child every time little by little.
Fear of water
Do not try at all to attract your child to the sea, this gives quite the opposite result in most cases, result in the child's fear of water.
Fear of injury

The fear of injury to any part of the body between the second and fifth year of age of the child can be overcome as follows.

In this age child wants to know the reason behind anything, so if the child saw a man disabled, for example, it first wants to know the reason behind his then begin to consider whether it was possible the same injury this injury.

The watching children body sister during Asthamamha, and noted the difference between his body and the body was believed to be the injury to the difference of composition for composition which may fall ill, frightened, you should Explanation him an easy way that there is a difference between body sister and between your baby's body because they girl is born.

You can tell him that he, like his father and his sister like you. Regarding disability you can simply tell him that sometimes the person is exposed to accidents and that if one of us well aware and was cautious, it is the only way to prevent accidents.
Bad dreams (nightmares)

The bad dreams is another way of roads that cross the fears child itself during sleep, as well as expressing themselves during wakefulness, therefore abound these dreams in a child's life at this stage more than any other stage, and reach those dreams to peak between the fourth and sixth Even though some children continue after this age to suffer from such dreams from time to time.

Often these nightmares come at intervals, we find the child suffered almost every night for weeks and does not suffer from any of them for a whole month.

The nightmares though evidence of fear and anxiety but it is a normal thing at this stage, every child at this stage has something to worry about, and we must fear appears from time to time in this way.

Therefore there is no need for parents to that Ancgla more than you should on these dreams, but that does not mean that Etjahllagha or Ankeraha to their child, a child at this stage be in serious need of assistance Btahedith and presence at his side.

The most important possible when dealing with nightmares is that Tsraei to your child as soon as you hear the cry, the voice and picture and touches him will work to dispel loneliness and unity that increase fear and help to reassure and comfort him in the case and reserve duty also that if you had to exit and leave the child at this stage with a knowledge and relatives or with a nanny, you should make sure that you have selected someone known to the child a good knowledge. At that time, and that himself worthy Bthagtk he will rush to your child as soon as he hears less voice shows his fear.

And most important of all is to identify the source of those dreams if repeated or violent.So it is in this case reflects a degree of anxiety or conflict suffered by the child.

And often reflects the content of the dream for a key to that conflict or anxiety suffered by the child. The dream reflects either explicitly or in the form of a symbolic convincing. The child haunts the night the cat that scare him in during the day or the accident, which happened to him Ksagoth of stairs or other events or things.

This may help to identify the source of the concern expressed by the dreams of children, to discuss with him in the morning Multi dream who أرقه night, or at least help him to be narrated to us so relieves tension, which may suffer.

A child who Yanes to his parents do not find they have only every estimate of his troubles and understand and accept all what they feel, without sarcasm or deny or downplay those troubles, will be easier to deal with in talking about these troubles, including bad dreams will find parents that their son still naive enough can not hide the motives and convince them to the extent that it may have great.
Frightening ideas

Not occur nightmares like dreams only during sleep, but they also occur as ideas during any period of sleepiness before bedtime.

The same child can not say for sure if he was sleeping the heat of the moment or awake but starts to cry or call to tell you that he can not sleep.

It helps in this case sometimes your question to your child about what bothered him - he can tell you about this monster that wants to Ilthmh. If you listened to him it feels comfortable when they speak to you. Then you have to repeat your him tranquility and a sense of security in a simple and unequivocal also - If the problem is "that the thieves will go home .. you have to remember your child that it is not possible for any person entering, because the doors are all tightly closed, as well as the windows are high and can not One even used the ladder to reach them.

Such ideas differ from nightmares, they stem directly as a result of the stories he hears the child or watched on the small screen. As if his mind lists the story again when he starts to relax and sleep approaching. The unimaginable powers then begins to work, you should not tell the child only nice stories before going to bed, so that goes to sleep and has a delightful ideas.

Of the reasons that may arise from these ideas also reach the ears of the child some painful life events, or even half a conversation over Pleasing during your conversation with one of the Friends for surgery, for example - or may reach the brawl or headset to hear the voice of the mother crying All of these situations cause anxiety, especially when he goes to sleep.

Once again reiterate that in Asttaatk help for your child to talk with him and explain .. But beware of lying.

If Turning to your child's hearing brawl, it is far better that locating and recognize that finding your child an appropriate part of why they occur.

The baby will accept fights, especially if what he said is also quarreled with his friends who loved them, as well as with his brothers and melee does not mean lack of love - and the adults too can cry like kids.