Modify the negative behavior of the child

Modify the negative behavior of the child

Dr. Mona Gad - Dean of the Faculty of Kindergarten at Cairo University, a recent publication in the journal (flowers) Egyptian.Our children beads hearts are keen to raise them and teach them at an early age so abstracted Kuamn goodness of them - men and women - kindergarten is the threshold first stepping upon the child first steps educational and talked about kindergarten and child Mona Gad - Dean Faculty of Kindergarten at Cairo University, a modern publication magazine (flowers) Egyptian.Says: In fact most nurseries a Apartments not buildings integrated and there is a qualified educationally and locally, psychologically and therefore do not trust the mother to leave her children in this role and problems kindergartens that the rate of assimilation in Egypt does not exceed 12% ie (every 100 children have 12 places only). This represents the increase of women going out to work the problem, we need to increase kindergarten According to the World Bank should be the percentage of absorption to 65% in 2010 and in this case we need to increase the number of graduates qualified educationally to work in the nursery, as well as increase the number of these homes. Many parents are keen to educate children in kindergarten and Language Is this true account of a scientific point of view?Kindergarten children in the growth stage mental and physical and play is the most important thing develops his personality at this stage Vlgth and skills all grow through play and misses many parents while putting pressure on the children to write and they caught the pen in the early stage at this point not be integration between the eye and the hand has occurred which may cause deformities in the hand and the pressure on the child at an early stage of the work duties may cause a psychological burden on the child pays for the hatred of science represented in the preschool and school. Wrong - scientifically and psychologically - to force the child to write and solve homework in kindergarten and when up to the beginning of the school stage find that reading and writing proficiency to understand first grade curriculum so how do we balance the two?We do not advocate leaving the child without learning to read and write in kindergarten, but the problem of compulsion and not in education and not even occur gap has to be the integration of school curricula in grades first three in the school with the decisions of kindergarten, but unfortunately not taken the opinion of consultants and specialists in this it. What's the most successful ways to change the behavior of the child negative? And if all else fails means Is the solution in accepting Bmyate despite that this may be difficult for the same mother?Kidwa is the most successful means to change the behavior of the child, how will punish the child to lie while lying I'm on around me? ! Then what does it mean to fail the means of education in fine tune the behavior of the child?! Failure then went to jam from the ground up is the reason cons of the child if a child is born Bmyate Although the first five years of a child's life are his personality but it can be edited later, but the difficulty is best to create a sound basis instead of demolition and reconstruction.The mother can be adjusted behavior first examine the causes of the problem and attempt to treat or means other than Kidwa such discussion, trips and visits and style direct experience of good practices such as: leaving a child passes behavior wrong - is the danger - to see the results of his behavior himself and learn from him. How to overcome the mother to child separated difficulties about whether to enter kindergarten or kindergarten?First day separated the child from his mother called weaning social must for a mother to create the child for the day and out of the child for kindergarten better than to do this weaning on the threshold of the school and this configuration does not scare the mother her child from kindergarten do not make it a means punishment does not spend is his supervisor him and he had learned to rely self enters the bathroom by himself, eat by himself and express what he wants and does not want to.And leave it in kindergarten gradually and little time in the early days and then gradually increase it is important to know that if hating child kindergarten it will not be happy with his life course later unless there is Ihbbh in the study and bound by that loves children Rodth and his school from the beginning better than to look after Alhma what could alleyway them. What's the appropriate age to cause the child to kindergarten? There is a difference between the kindergarten stage educational It starts from the age of three years to six years and between nurseries starting in front of children from the age of three months after the end of maternity leave for the mother to three years and must be tagged or supervisor in phases eligible educationally and psychologically healthy and private stage nursery for dealing with the "babies" who need patience and experience more. There are some popular neighborhoods taken from any area of ​​Dara Nursery and operates teachers or supervisors are not qualified assess Spadtk these role?There are conditions for the nursery or kindergarten, including the availability of the appropriate place and garden vast that contain games have educational goals rather than entertainment and if some role based on the experience of mothers or grandmothers, we do not deny the role of experience, but with the help of science, it should be but if not available, Dar good health it is best to get the mother to child care leave. Children's Literature is important when will start reading him?Mother can start reading to children since the first six months of age and do not wait until the child can correct pronunciation at three years, for example reading the child increase its outcome linguistic since such an early age, through reducing the child's mind to the information in the form of mental images abstracted mind when he sees in front of him once other.Mother when she read in the book about a cat or Asforh or similar it when he sees it in fact called the name that he heard as the reading of the child تعوده dealing with the book, respect and awareness of its value, but must take into account the quality of the books maintained by the child and be washable: because the child in This phase is called the oral stage resort to get to know the environment surrounding it and discovered through the mouth must be the mother wash books periodically to keep it clean, as well as toys. Is there a child naturally messy?No child messy and another is messy, but parents or based on child-rearing is that knows the system or anarchist or at least accept chaos than a child when he things randomly and can not find the Insahh believed that this behavior good or acceptable if repeated it without being settled that in his mind, then our children suffer from a chaotic and Ashoaúathm we actually leave the child's behavior without modification, and then complain about it afterwards. Is my credit boy and Tkala more than girls? And what do you say every mother reared her as such?I say to the mothers that the method of education is that controls the behavior of the boy or girl and this fact must be conscious of organizers of the education they sometimes exaggerate in love with boys and protect them, especially if the child is alone on several girls arises sons - both kinds - Taliyn are not doing or can not act when they are alone or when they grow up and ask them some tasks not find anyone to help them.From here family must learn their children self-reliance - male and female - and through situations in which you put them to see how they behave, do good Fajara, otherwise it would be the role of guidance and counseling. What behavioral phenomena that are associated Bmrahltha should not disturb the mother?Child at the age of three year term begins in the sense of self and accept things and reject other and express this rejection, acceptance and insist on it and complain mother here from stubbornness child and described as such, but this is not so and is an attempt of the child to assert itself and this a real opportunity for the mother to develop the child's personality.The child at the age of 5 years imagination begins to grow and can not differentiate between time specifically between yesterday and today and tomorrow, talks about something he would do tomorrow كزيارة for example, grandfather or grandmother that happened yesterday. And sometimes results in a critical social result of these attitudes within the family and Tnehrh mother and describes lying and what is Pkazb and the mother here first know the meaning of lying and destroyed psychologically when it describes the behavior not meant not understand then be understood Child facts fade as such either stubbornness goes back again in adulthood It is an attempt to prove themselves and must be dealt with wisdom and containment. Family no longer is the only jam of the child today what the impact of the intervention and other methods in the education of children?Yesterday was the extended family's role in child-rearing and upbringing but now it has the means of modern technology intervened in the child's upbringing is what we now call education partners and this means such as: television, shower, internet.They are not all evil and not good for all. The success of the family as allowing for this partner in quantity and quality and impact values ​​and ethics and religion are the safety valve within the family arises individual and has a balance of values ​​weighs what may and what may not. What should and should not be, especially in light of the family's limited ability to control foreign and try invaded ethic alien to us.Valmna will not solve the problem of unwanted Valmmnoa but conscience and self-censorship in the hearts of our children is the bulwark. How can the mother to make the child a world of play helped him to understand the concept and preserve the environment?With high prices is not a requirement to be games are expensive but mother can be used data environment in making Kid games every environment varies its data for other environment coastal non-rural environment and can learn the mother-child making a game by himself if he is unable to do so or leave it uses components used in the home to produce something creative, he can imagine funds of beds and Dolaba cartoons or beta.