problems of Arab children on the Internet
An analytical study of a educational sites on the Internet
A / Mona Abdel-Fattah Younis
1 - theme:
Internet - that medium modern technological - not argue one in vitality and effectiveness in many areas, and the most prominent of these areas the field of "scientific research" as allowed Internet - also did not have a way by - D researchers rolling in wealth of information and data on the one hand and, on the Other researchers facilitated dealing with many research tools Kalahsaouat and questionnaires, and opinion polls.
The research aims at hand to take advantage of the way the Internet in approaching a scientific manner and studied the problems of Arab children, it was not possible to do such a search expanded to include Arab children from the beginning of birth until the age of fifteen present inside the Arab world or beyond in Europe, America, the country Far East possible before the invention of the Internet, but now with the rapid spread of this invention in the world in general, and between our people speakers Arab particular became possible and affordable, especially after interest domain educational on many Arabic sites, leading those sites site "Islam Online Line Net ", which offers, among many pages service and translation, which means various areas of life, a special page for the service" Educational Consulting "receive page inquiries and consulting parents about the many problems of children, whether psychological problems, educational health, education, or related to dealing with people with special needs is to respond to these queries a number of specialists in the fields of education, psychological and various educational, and disseminate these answers on the web, for PET interest on all visitor despite being Page and modern service where it was aired on 3 - 1 - 2001, but published until the end of September 250 questions, this service is unique in its content and style at the level of Arabic sites on the Internet, and therefore this research - and who benefited from the article published and sent to the site in the census quantitative and qualitative considered research pioneer in this field.
2 - questions:
Tries to look through the "reading" the data sent for "two hundred consult" the answer to two specific questions:
What are the main Almclat suffered by Arab children?
What are the causes and factors behind these problems?
3 - Sample search:
Search is a careful reading of the first two hundred consult an incoming page "Educational Consulting" location "IOL Net" include consulting bicentennial first inquiries concerning children from birth to age birth to the age of five en, The classification problems fitted psychological problems, educational, educational, health, and the problems of people with special needs.
For geographical location it includes all Arab countries, in addition to the problems children Arabs in the West, and include alienation 3 categories: children left their countries of origin and traveled with their families to the West (Europe and America), or to the country Far East (China and Indonesia), or traveled from country Arabic to another Arab country.
Then take advantage of the data sent by the parents to the site attached consulted, where displays parents data: parents' education and work, and the nature of family relationship (stable, turbulent, or separate), in addition to the arrangement son or daughter the problem, or arranged between brothers, and of course age , and sex, it is a truly random sample.
4 - search tool:
A - analysis of the substance of the advice contained: or
Were analyzed contained after consulting categorized into age groups:
Baby, early childhood, middle childhood, late childhood and adolescence, came statistics to show percentages highlighted problems in each classification: came problems difficulties a child separated from his mother and sleep independent problems the baby, for example, as the problem of maintaining the language, and how to help young Remember Quran on top of the problems experienced by parents of children early childhood in exile.
B - data analysis that came with the advice:
The analysis of numerous data sent attached with counseling is the key that it could solve the mystery of the reasons behind the emergence of these problems, it was not - as was expected - mother's work is among the factors the emergence of these problems, where the complaints are higher than housewives, as did not represent the work of Father factor on the hours he was with children where then concluded that the rate craftsman with his sons not much different from the number of hours diplomat, university professor, and employee ... Etc..
Can not claim more assertive health of these results, as it ultimately depends on the sincerity of the sender, which is difficult if not impossible to emphasize it, and so we must consider all the results and statistics are approximate, and considered research as a whole a mere prelude to discuss a broader and deeper, what Ahojna to like this effort now.
5 - a detailed look at a sample:
There was no significant difference - in the first consulting bicentennial - in terms of child sex problems holders, where more than females (53%) boys (47%) only six percentage terms of the ages of these children - who sent their families with their problems - it has been classified into age groups: early childhood class 31%, followed by the categories of middle childhood, which came percentage of questions that belong to this category 20% and adolescents (20%), while the late childhood came with infants each 15%.
The most prominent difference was in terms of the quality of advice received, while mental disorders accounted for 16%, and educational issues 14%, followed ranked health problems which did not exceed 6% and the problems of people with special needs 4% of the total two hundred consulted.
In terms of the geographical location of this sample has been evident that parents who settled in their country did not settle their children in another country are the most questions about how to address the problems of their children, where the number of questions contained by these 142 consulting, while came 29 advice of Arab families settled In the Gulf countries, and those who left their homes and settled the West, Europe, America, or Australia, it was reported, including 10 questions, followed by the families left their homes and traveled to other Arab countries, Kalosr Palestinian settled the case in Jordan or Lebanese who settled in Syria (7 families), and the number of questions received by settled in China, Indonesia and Ozeikstan, did not exceed four questions. The comparison between the education of pain and Father's education came as follows:
Number of parents educated high was 160, in compared to 146 the university, but for the education medium has exceeded mothers parents (42) versus (26) father, but striking is the stable number of parents with education below average and uneducated, they accounted for each category 8 cases, and so there was a constant and clear for mothers has accounted for 6 cases. Really striking was the large proportion of non-working mothers, housewives;, accounted for 69%. While representing teachers and workers in the education sector 15%, followed by 9% ratio of female engineers and most programmers or Mtaamlat whom Computer with 3%, while female doctors percentage was 2%, just like the students at the university (most of them in the final year) 2%.
Parents ratio broader whom Engineers (61 of the total 200), followed by staff (53 employees), followed by business and workers in the field of free (22), then the university professors, researchers and Alokadeimun (12) of them sent us problems concerning their children, followed by doctors (9), and the rest They were representing teachers, retirees, and workers in the police and army (each of these three categories send us 18-consulting), and came 7 Consulting with craft work just like the "unemployed" (7 Consulting).
The lowest advice received from diplomats and university students. For each of the above factors influence both direct and indirect on the couple's relationship to each other, and then the child's relationship with his parents, came selected sample 88% of them do not suffer family disorders, and the relationship between husband and wife couple, and 4% were separated. Thus was the result of the whereabouts of Child 4%, which is (separated parents), the same percentage child is with his mother, but troubled families, it is clear that they half (4%) opted Seen child with grandparents or with the father or in the case of one alone, the percentage of Activity Child confines of his parents was 93%.
As for the geographical location of the selected sample was as follows:
50% of the Gulf, 18 percent of Egypt, 11% of the countries Sham, 8% of Europe's role and 6% of the countries of North Africa, followed by the ranked countries in North America: the United States and Canada, which accounted for 8% combined, then at the end of the list came Australia (1%) and the Far East (1%).
6 - Read the problems contained:
First: the problems of the baby:
The percentage of infants problems 15% of the problems contained.
Highlighted the problems of the baby:
This stage begins immediately after birth and until weaning, a period often extends for a period of two years.
The most significant of these problems, the problem of baby: Where do you sleep? What is the optimal way to separated from the bed of the mother? When it affects the psyche? The (5 questions to the subject of the total 25)
Followed in terms of quantum health questions haunt parents and seek advice Kalastfassar symptoms gawk Mongol or how to strengthen a two psychologically before surgery (4 questions). Came the problem of dealing with the signs of "stubbornness" First when the baby.
The problem came to wean the baby safely nerve of that period in fourth place (two questions). As stated two questions for fondling and petting small and games that develop intelligence.
The rest of the problems in different topics as dealing and management "crisis" in the case of twins, the problem of "shame," but striking a number of interesting facts that may help explain the emergence of these problems.
The main factors behind the baby's problems:
There have been a number of striking data:
1 - All parents of these infants taught high.
2 - All those families stable and do not suffer from the disorder.
3 - baby live within the confines of his parents, without exception.
The factors that may have played in these problems:
1 - despite the fact that 40% of those mothers Alrusselat to their problems with their babies Mstaqrat in their place of origin, the percentage of 60% larger percentage of them belong to those families who migrated her to the Gulf or to the west, and strange that no one family suffering from problem with baby from North Africa or Australia, and the interpretation of this phenomenon is that new mothers "addition, lack a the necessary experience in ordinary cases - cases stability in the original home of the grandmother in this task, Vtqda advice and counsel, but in the case of those mothers who were sent Bmchakhin did not find the Esicrnh they see a "problem" and were mostly ordinary things you need to experience, the questions came to stand out clearly the prevailing confusion and turmoil in their homes because of this new guest.
2 - Average hours Activity mother with small is 3/421 hours, which is high and interpretation is the fact that most mothers in this age may have left their businesses and Tafrgn the visitor new, it has been among the 25 liquid 18 of them housewives, and one 3 teachers, staff one and one engineer, and one was still studying at the university. Long stay with the baby makes the mother more interactive with what the baby is going through, but not necessarily more aware of how to deal properly with those developments.
3 - The father came mostly engineers: 13 engineers among the 25, followed by the staff (8), one doctor, one teacher, one questioner was unemployed, filling the check data and function father wording does not work now. So average father came with baby 10 hours a day, meaning if we raised the hours of sleep that a father spends only two hours with small, which is not long enough to interact with and strengthening the mother psychologically.
Second childhood problems:
They aged from two to six years, has been received for this stage 46 question of all questions bicentennial, came most of those questions about the age of four and five, and was the least of the age of two and a half: 28 questions came in the field of education, 4 questions in the health field, 4 in the field of special needs, and 6 questions about mental disorders, and 4 educational questions. Ie: 60% educational problems, 13% psychological, a healthy 8% and the same percentage of people with special needs and education.
Highlighted the problems of early childhood:
It was difficult to trace a certain direction to the problems, but can be considered that the first concern of the people at this stage is to build identity and conscience, came questions preservation of identity in exile in greater emphasis on teaching Arabic and Quran in the Diaspora is an attribute often at this stage, as it came the problem of dealing with the TV feature those questions expressing the desire of parents to build conscience.
The second set of questions in its entirety was asked about the problem Anad and how to deal with stubborn child .. The questions showed a lack of experience in dealing and excessive tendency to wish the "ideal", due to the fact that the child in most cases, the child's first, where the parents at this stage to keep away from realism and away from the understanding of the nature and requirements phase. This is evident in the frequent recognition parents Bmihm to speed use multiplication method. Came in third place problems psychological Kalmkhaov, lack of self-confidence, "nail-biting" and sucking lips, and jealousy of his brother / sister newcomer.
The problems of communication and unification can be considered "as" in fourth place, they are mostly inquiries and asked for advice, and how to deal with an autistic child or owner address the problem, and where parents journey begins treatment.
The main factors behind the problems of early childhood:
Can understand the reasons for the emergence of these problems of parents read data attached with the consultation form, came analyzed the following results:
(1) 28 cases of group 46 cases (60%), parents settled in their places of origin, 12 (or 26%) if left home to settle in the Gulf, 6 cases (or 15%) settled in European countries and America, that total Altarkh families of her country and living away from home 18 cases, a percentage is high. Here can be explained by the high proportion of the questions about identity preservation and teaching of Arabic and the Quran, as this ratio construed perfect parents and their dealings with the child not realistic, it is not in front of them form a close "as a model cousins or uncle" is giving them sufficient experience.
(2) The percentage of housewives is the highest among occupational groups, there was a 28 but do not exercise any profession (28%). The profession highest number was in the field of teaching (8) by 16%, then employees (5) and accounted for 10%, then the engineers (8) and accounted for 16% of the medical profession and academic careers were one in each category. This means that 16 of the total of 46 As (Eng, employers, school) fall under the pressure of "work and this figure 34% is considered high, and this explains the lack of patience and nerve in the face of the problem of stubbornness.
(3) The average number of hours the mother with her child with the four years was 16 hours a day, means 8 hours after subtracting hours of sleep, which is the number of hours not too bad.
(4) (19) father works, 13 father works in the engineering profession (mostly in the field of computers), employees, (2) in a military career, 2 doctors, 2 businessman, 2 diplomat, 2 retired, 1 does not work. Increase the proportion of staff - and if we take into account that most of them in the Gulf countries explains clearly average low for hours Activity father with a small, at home came average 7.9 to approximately 8 hours, this means that there are quite a number of parents do not spend only minutes with their children, this explains the reasons for the speed-mile parents beaten and screaming, nervous and not hold them to the problems of Kand and jealousy, and thus causing a clear way to the emergence of psychological problems Kqdm nails and sucking lips that are originally express a psychiatric disorder in the relationship with a parent.
(5) 16 cases out of 46 were female (34%) that is the largest percentage are male (66%), and the problem of stubbornness, the highest in the case of males generally interpreted to altitude ratio questions received from Anad, came problems females mostly psychological problems Kmkhaov and lack of self-confidence or health problems.
Third: the problems of middle childhood:
An age phase which starts from the age of six and finished in ninth, most of the questions were at the end of this stage, however, were 80% of the questions about the age of nine and 20% of the age of the sixth and seventh.
Highlighted the problems of middle childhood:
The problems on the whole mental disorders and an inability to face life in the right way, the main feature here is the psychological problems, although there were many manifestations: such as loss of the ability to express, daydreaming, scallop, school problems such as loss of the ability to focus.
Behavioral disorders Kafshae secrets, theft, abuse of relatives, the desire to control and lead the younger brothers, and all this unexplained and the concept of the Son of this stage is the son of the environment and the family, in addition to the school environment, Vijmh son this stage to imitate his colleagues in the new behaviors you do not have reared; Ivhl parents and asking for reasons.
This is in addition to the beginning of the questions "critical" and questions about sexual orientation, in this age how to be understood.
Then follows the inability of parents to the development of creativity young although they understand fully the creativity and attitudes technical Visaelon for optimal ways to develop the creativity, and this explained because in the age of seven starts talents and capabilities to emerge, which was not possible in the early stages Sunni previous.
The main factors behind the problems of middle childhood:
Came here proportion mothers with secondary education and below average higher than the age groups above, there are 13 cases of those cases any more than 39% of the mothers of children this stage did not arrive to higher education this explains the lack of awareness of basic things Kalmjul citizenship to children of a young age - the fact Or they - how to deal with questions of nationality or how to deal with young creativity.
As stated when hours Activity mother with small 3/411, a rate low if we put in mind the need for small to help skip the first steps of the school, and this may explain the emergence of behavioral problems that need to follow-up and care as a problem lying and stealing, which is the problems that arise usually little need to draw attention or lack of care and compassion.
The problems that arise from cases turmoil family they are all justified if we realize that there are 7 cases disorder and separation of the total 33 cases, and if the father is deceased, as well as 3 cases do not enjoy the small Bhoudn his parents, but he lives with one of the parties without the other, so all children under turbulent conditions 33%.
Father's education came on the whole high, though there are 5 cases to teach average below average, but striking that the number of employees was 10 (30%) higher than the number of engineers (9) [top profession for visitor, followed by a variety of teachers (12% ) 4, then a military range 2, and the remaining is distributed evenly between the business and professions and trades.
The average hours father with his children at home 7 hours, which is a very low average, increases with increasing the proportion of staff, and this explains the prevalence of behavioral disorders that are need to follow such as theft and lying.
Fourth: late childhood problems:
A category Albeefah which extends from the age of nine to twelve and a pre-teen, the number of problems related to childhood late 23 question, 95% of these questions concerning the age of twelve, 4% age of ten, and 1% eleven. Distributed educational problems between 9, 6 myself, 5 tutorial, 3 healthy and those with special needs, obviously increase the proportion of educational problems.
Highlighted the problems of late childhood:
Varied and numerous problems, but most notably those related problems in terms of academic excellence, and address the problems of neglect and wasting time on the other hand
2 - Some problems psychological Calanazalah, shy, introverted, obsessive-compulsive disorder.
A - emerged as the main factors behind the problems of late childhood:
1 - The percentage of parents who settled in their country the highest proportion, did not add anything of the 23 consulted only 6 cases of families settled in the Gulf or the West, and two cases of families settled in another Arab country, but striking that the questioners were accounted Top 12 cases from the Gulf states, then followed by 5 from Egypt, 3 from North Africa and the rest of the European countries. This explains the nature of the problems related to the beginnings of adolescence, where at least awareness of the nature of the stage, and the need inclination towards style "soft and kindness" with boys / girls this age.
2 - really shocking is that the high proportion of mothers with secondary education and below, where it was among the 23 consulting 13 Consulting for this category, and therefore the percentage of workers 4%, and the remaining housewives, perhaps this is due to the nature of the Gulf countries, but in the end inexplicably good the lack of awareness in the way of dealing with problems as messages of love, psychological twelfth child, his desire to revolt. This comes at a time when it asks parents about how to "impose prayer" on their children, how to re-chicks to the fold of obedience and good hearing.
3 - Far more surprising is that they spend those mothers and most of them housewives only 12 hours with the boys in the house, this means no Tafrghen, it may be the work of the volunteer or service, but the average hours of this (so presumably they were Atrhan hours sleep 8 hours of 24 hours to the number of hours to 16 hours, not 12) needs to finish to interpret. This medium in itself, explaining the educational problems that you need to follow, patience and calm.
4 - The number of problems males higher than females (15 versus 8), almost any weakness, and this also explained the worsening insurgency problems, frustration and psychological distress felt by the teenager, especially in the Gulf states.
5 - Father with children does not exceed 7 hours is the average may also be explained to the educational problems that do not find it gives them the time and effort of hand - and the problems that characterized the beginning of adolescence.
6 - functions father (9 engineers, 5 employees 0.3 businessmen 0.2 retirees, and one professor at the university), and education were accounted top of higher education, 27 cases: high and 6 cases only for average and below, and this explains why came most of the questions on the lips father and not the mother, where she represented 75% of the number of cases, a proportion consistent with the literacy rate in this segment, and the father - who came to the university - is more familiar with the problems of children and a desire to solve or be more vulnerable to Internet and coming to services.
Fifth: the problems of adolescence:
A period after twelve to fifteen, where not consider this page to the age group that exceed fifteen. The number of problems in this stage 28 question.
Highlighted the problems of adolescence:
1 - insurgency problems on parents and attempts to prove themselves, but came in several forms, most notably delinquency towards smoking, lack of acceptance of style parents in the deal, and to highlight the rejection, and to stop the march of academic excellence, rebellion and leadership Coterie in school, to escape out of the family.
2 - problems stemming from the beginning to engage in the process of dealing with the new opposite sex and sexual matters in general, appeared توجسات parents of an order of "friendship", questions mothers shamelessly girls of the menstrual cycle, and disorder boys from seeing sins such as adultery, and astonishment and not their knowledge sufficient optimum ways to deal with the reality of the ocean.
School problems and academic failures genius for phase changes or attempts to impose the old traditional methods fathers to the children.The main factors behind the problems of adolescence:
1 - The percentage of those who left their homes and deported to homelands new high 40% of the total cases, 20% of these cases Athern stability in the West or the Middle, leaving the Arab environment and bosom family "big" which exacerbates the problems, Coping problems adolescence in the Arab countries have left because of religious environment on the one hand, and support the family (uncle / uncle) On the other hand, in spite of our lack of knowledge of the history of the stability of parents in the countries that they removed them, but their children of at this stage also increases the problems of exposure teenager suddenly the habits and lifestyle different coping difficult.
2 - 14 cases were females, and the same percentage of males, which means that parents find problems on both sides in the same proportion.
3 to 11 cases of mothers with education average or below average this means 28, an ratio does not live up to half, but the percentage of working came 50% of housewives, was teaching is in the first place, and did not contested any job only "employee" though timidly (4 cases). Proportion of female teachers high was explained from the outset, because the ratio of the questions on cases of rebellion teens teen in the classroom and within the school, came by the teachers, not the parents, while the interested parents problems such as smoking, and loss of appetite to study home, and a state of rebellion in the relationship with parents .
It may be 50% of working mothers a reason that most of the questions came Togesah - as a result of what they hear from colleagues - came questions such as: hear about the problems of the relationship between the sexes, or delinquency boys to cigarettes, or the beginnings of academic failure at this stage ... , beginning a question as prophylaxis or preparation of the same of what are the entrees.
4 - not the arrival of a significant number of mothers to the level of university education made them Atogesn of any failure class, so as not to crash hope the arrival of "son / daughter" to the level of university education, that is clear to insist desperate for parents to prevent any failure or low level.
5 - came this range of problems, problems adolescence - where diverse functions father in an unprecedented way, there is equally: Engineers artisans, businessmen, diplomats, staff, teachers, but striking is that the average Seen father with children came 4 hours and 40 minutes. Average extremely low, as approved university professors they do not spend time at all with their children, and so of not working and retired, while the highest number of hours spent by a father with his children was "the diplomat and the doctor, and the engineers average presence House 4 hours, things are explained to not contain problems and aggravation, came thus all the answers urges containment, and absorbed teenager, and spend more time with him in open dialogues and discussions.
6 - exacerbated the problems being grown in 10% of families separate or troubled, and in 20% of teenagers do not live within the confines of their parents, but distributors for Grandma or Grandpa or at one end of the equation (father or mother)
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